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Matt Osborne's avatar

When "nuance" is the narcissism of small differences

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Kathleen Lowrey's avatar

Thanks for writing this, Eva. My mental shorthand for this is "the voice of reason". It is usually a man who arrives at a debate involving women's issues, who hasn't done any of the reading or research, and immediately positions himself as The Voice of Reason on it all.

Of course there are also those who have done quite a bit of the reading and research (koff koff Jesse Singal koff koff) who pull this move. In that case I feel like: well, okay, we just honestly disagree. But it's still annoying that they call their stance "nuanced" rather than "nope I just don't like what feminists have to say about this". The latter would be so much more honest and less self-regarding. I don't try to pretend I'm more "nuanced" than Jesse Singal, like I've got a higher score on some scale of merit than he does: I just don't agree with him and am willing to leave it at that.

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