2024 was my first full calendar year on Substack, and I’d say it was an eventful one! Despite getting pregnant, getting married, giving birth, and having a newborn for the final two months of the year, I managed 90 posts altogether! Thank you to everyone who has read anything I have written at all.
To wrap up the year, I wanted to take a look back at what I believe are some of my best posts. I’ve broken them up into the ten with the most views and ten of my personal favorites. Hopefully, if you haven’t seen everything I’ve done this year (which I don’t expect anyone to have), you might feel like checking some of these out!
My Top 10 Most Viewed Posts of 2024
10. Gender Identity is an External Locus of Control
Ah, the piece in which some people accused me of making an argument for “true trans,” despite the fact that it includes the sentence, “I don’t believe there is any such thing as ‘true’ trans.” Regardless, this is definitely one of my favorite posts of the year, and I still stand by every word.
Gender Identity is an External Locus of Control
Locus of control is a term used to describe an individual’s belief about what factors control their lives. Those with an internal locus of control have a strong sense of agency and believe that their lives are influenced by their own actions and abilities. Those with an external locus of control feel that they are…
9. I'm a Pregnant Lesbian. Gender Ideology Would Have Stolen My Baby from Me
A little recap of my pregnancy journey as well as why I speak out so strongly against gender ideology.
I'm a Pregnant Lesbian. Gender Ideology Would Have Stolen My Baby from Me
For most of my life, I knew I wanted kids. In my early twenties, my partner mentioned that maybe she didn’t want them after all, which upset me a great deal. It led to a dream where I was holding my newborn baby in my arms—a feeling that I couldn’t shake. A few years later, it was my turn to doubt children as I had dealt with a few bouts of depression a…
8. Canada Comes Out Strongly Against the Human Rights of Female Athletes
This piece takes a look at a fantastic report from the UN Special Rapporteur on Violence against Women and Girls—which touched on the issue of men in women’s sports—as well as Canada’s absolutely deranged response.
Canada Comes Out Strongly Against the Human Rights of Female Athletes
Earlier this week, the UN Special Rapporteur on Violence against Women and Girls, Reem Alsalem, presented a report on violence against women and girls in sports to the General Assembly. The extensive report covered a range of issues fa…
7. No, Not Letting Kids Transition Won't Cause Them to Commit Suicide
This is a post I was particularly proud of. I took a look at all the available research I could find that actually looked at the link between trans identity and suicide to help put an end to the disgusting lie that kids will kill themselves if you do not let them “transition.”
No, Not Letting Kids Transition Won't Cause Them to Commit Suicide
Whenever the topic of “trans kids” comes up, the specter of suicide is not far behind. We are told that a lack of access to “gender-affirming care” will cause kids to take their own lives, and parents are frequently pre…
6. The No True Trans Fallacy
Detransitioners are often accused of never having been “really trans” in the first place. This is my answer to that particular piece of rhetorical nonsense.
The No True Trans Fallacy
Anyone who regularly argues with those who believe in a quasi-mystical essence known as a “gender identity” (a bastardized concept of the soul, in my opinion), knows that these true believers utilize a lot of fallacies. One of the most common fallacies that they like to employ has come to be known as “No True Trans.” This is when the definition of what …
5. Trans and the One-Way Street of Compassion
I’m glad this essay got the attention I feel it deserved. I speak about the one-way flow of compassion within the trans movement and how it is all based on the Victim-Persecutor-Rescuer drama triangle.
Trans and the One-Way Street of Compassion
Everyone involved in the gender debate knows that compassion only flows one way. For example, when men and boys want to compete in women’s sports, we are told they must be allowed to do this to make them feel included and protect their mental health. If you bring up the mental health, safety, inclusion, opportunities, and dreams of the female athletes, …
4. Concerning Data on "Trans Kids" in Canada That Activists Need to Address
This piece takes a look at a 2019 study that revealed the incredibly concerning demographics of “trans kids” in Canada which I feel every advocate for child transition should be made to grapple with.
Concerning Data on "Trans Kids" in Canada That Activists Need to Address
Trans Youth CAN! was a study of 174 minors aged 15 or younger who were referred for puberty blockers or cross-sex hormones that ran from September 2017 to June 2019. I wish we had more updated data, but it’s the best snapshot we have of children accessing these services in this country. I often reference this study because what it
3. "You're Going to Make Kids Commit Suicide" — A Histrionic Roundtable in Edmonton
Early in 2024, I attended a roundtable discussion that included none other than Kristopher Wells, one of Canada’s newest senators. Read about how Wells and the other trans activists derailed the whole thing with their histrionics.
"You're Going to Make Kids Commit Suicide" — A Histrionic Roundtable in Edmonton
Yesterday I attended a “2SLGBTQQIA+” stakeholder roundtable discussion in Edmonton hosted by Tanya Fir, Minister of Arts, Culture and Status of Women regarding Premier Danielle Smith’s proposed policies addressing youth transition. I was joined by my friends Lois Cardinal, James Decker, and Jason Brandick.
2. The Women's Ski Champion Who Turned Out to Be a Man and Accepted It
Another post that I am happy got the attention it deserved because of the amazing human being that it was about. Erik Schinegger was born with a DSD and raised to believe he was a female—he even became a woman’s ski champion! But upon finding out that he was actually a man, he did the right thing and stopped competing against women.
The Women's Ski Champion Who Turned Out to Be a Man and Accepted It
Erik Schinegger was born in 1948 in Agsdorf, Austria, surrounded by the steep slopes of the Carinthia Valley. These slopes would later beckon him to become a world-class skier, first in the women’s category and then in the men’s.
1. Statistics Show That HALF of Trans-Identified Men in Prison Are Sex Offenders
If this post hadn’t made the top of the list, I admit I would have been very disappointed. It took a LOT of time and energy during a time when I was getting very pregnant! I compiled all the statistics I could find on the offending rates of trans-identified male prisoners to show that, all across the Western world, these men are far more likely to be sex offenders. I still see the piece getting shared around and I am very grateful every time for everyone who sees fit to use it as a resource. Thank you!
Statistics Show That HALF of Trans-Identified Men in Prison Are Sex Offenders
Many Western countries are transferring men into women’s prisons and calling this violation of women’s human rights “progress.” Yes, this is really happening, and it’s been happening for a while. Actually, in some places, it’s been happening for decades. There did used to be some semblance of safeguards in place, mainly that the man in question was requ…
My Personal Favorites
I’m happy to see that it is typically my heavily researched posts that get the most views because the point of those is to help “the movement,” as it were, and provide information that people can use. But, while I am good at it, research is not my happy place. This year I also wrote numerous essays which is where I think I actually shine. Or, at the very least, writing these is much more personally fulfilling to me. Here are some of my favorites, in no real order.
Language: The God of All Sides
When people on my own side of the gender ideology debate find out my stance on preferred pronouns (sex-based by default, might make some rare exceptions where I see fit, and will not control the words you choose to use), they often try to impress upon me how important language is—as if it is something I take flippan…
This is my perspective on the debate around language in “gender critical” circles. My lack of complete rigidity around pronouns caused such a firestorm at the beginning of this year that I still can’t quite believe it. Everything I have to say and still stand by is laid out in this piece.
My Fight is Against Coercive Control
The reason I am against gender ideology is because it is an authoritarian movement. Actually, I think it is part of a much larger progressive and postmodern—“woke” for short—movement that has captured our culture and our institutions. I just happen to be passionate and, dare I say, good at talking about …
This was a bit of a follow-up to the early 2024 drama because it has continued to follow me throughout the remainder of the year. Hopefully, I can leave all of that behind going into 2025!
Sane Gays Do Exist, We Are Everywhere, and the Queers Don't Represent Us
One of the hardest things about taking part in last week’s roundtable discussion on the Alberta government’s proposed policies addressing youth transition was that the side that was there to speak against the policies pretended to speak for the entire “2SLGBTQQIA+” community (yes, that is the official acronym used by our government).
After witnessing the madness at the roundtable in Edmonton, I wrote this in a bid to anyone willing to listen that we gays aren’t all as crazy as Kristopher Wells.
The LGBTQ+ "Community" is Not a Community—It's a Collective
In honor of Pride Month, let’s talk a bit about the so-called “LGBTQ+” or “gay” community. It’s a community that you might think I am a part of, being a lesbian and all, but that couldn’t be further from the truth. Even if I did consider myself a member, there are many who would tell…
Still tired of continually being force-teamed with the rest of the alphabet, I explored how the “queer” community isn’t a community at all but a political collective. It explains how it’s possible for me, a married, gold-star lesbian, to be routinely excommunicated.
Jordan Peterson May Not Believe in Lesbians, but I Believe in Jordan Peterson
On a recent podcast where he interviewed Michael Shellenberger about the bombshell WPATH Files, Jordan Peterson said that he doesn’t believe in lesbians. It was a quick, offhand comment that hasn’t even received all that much attention on social media, mostly because it was edited out of the version posted on YouTube. I heard it when I listened to the v…
When Jordan Peterson made an off-hand comment in an interview with Michael Shellenberger that he doesn’t believe in lesbians, it got me thinking. And the result was this article.
I Know I'm on the Fringes, But I Never Needed Everyone Else to Be Like Me
In some important ways, I am very different from most people. I have been with a woman for 17 years and we are going to get married. I also got pregnant in an unconventional manner and we are going to raise our baby together. Less stark but still somewhat significant is that I am fairly gender non-conforming in appearance and even in some aspects of my …
This was kind of a follow-up to the Jordan Peterson article and an acknowledgment of the fact that I know I live a “fringe” life in some ways, but that all I ever needed was to be accepted, not made the center of the universe—unlike those annoying queers.
Stop "Identifying As" and Learn to Exist
One of the hallmarks of our time is an obsession with identity. Rather than simply existing and naturally carrying out the roles of life, many seek to identify with or identify as in an effort to truly know who they are. To a certain extent, this is natural. We all want to belong. Humans are no doubt tribal. But…
This essay explores identity and how it relates to “gender identity,” the takeaway being that the constant performance involved in maintaining a “gender identity” puts up a barrier between people and their own existence.
Gender Identity is the Product of a Disconnected Mind
It’s no surprise that “gender identity” has become a viral concept in an age where so many of us live our lives online. In a sense, we spend a lot of our time disembodied and able to present ourselves in a way that might not totally be real. The problem is that gender ideologues have tried to apply this mode of …
This is a continuation of the thread I started in the previous essay. Here, I take a look at how “gender identity” is an example of a representation becoming reality for the disconnected mind—to devastating effects.
Count Me Out of Humanity Hatred
It's trendy to hate humans. Everyone sucks. We all oppress each other, and we've been doing it since the beginning of time. Oppression is the story of humanity, and that means there is nothing redeeming about us...
This is me refusing to fall into the pessimism and nihilism that seem all too trendy right now. There is a lot of good in the world because there are a lot of good people in it. Don’t get wrapped up in collectivism, and look for these individuals instead. If you find them or if you already have them, cherish that.
A Few Words on Gratitude
How do I write a post like this without sounding way too sappy and cringy? I guess I should just be as honest as possible and leave it for you to judge.
Sorry, you have to be a subscriber for that last one! Here, I talk about my gratitude, including for the readers and subscribers I have, as I appreciate the support either way. Generally, I don’t put the vast majority of my work behind a paywall, though I do try to retain perks here and there for those who are actually paying because I feel that is important as well. I know that for many people, myself included, even a Substack subscription is no small expense.
For those who have started to and continued to support me this year, please accept my heartfelt thanks. You have made it possible to keep doing this during the most tumultuous (mostly in a good way) year of my life. It would not be possible without you and I would have stopped long ago to focus my time and energy somewhere else.
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Write on, sister
And my heartfelt thanks to you, Eva! All the best in 2025!